next_to_normal: (facepalm)
[personal profile] next_to_normal
Messaging a guy on Hinge:

Him: Are you seeking a partner? Something casual, physical intimacy, just friends, etc?
Me: I am looking for a relationship.
Him: I am into that. I just know physical intimacy is something I want while getting to know someone. As long as there is respect and informed consent throughout.

GUYS I KNOW I SHOULD JUST BLOCK HIM BUT I HAVE SO MANY SNARKY REPLIES. My current front runner is "Translation: You want a hook-up, I don't, but you're hoping if you're polite about it, I'll sleep with you anyway." 

Why do dudes not realize that unless a girl explicitly only wants a hook-up, ASKING FOR SEX BEFORE YOU'VE MET IS A GIANT RED FLAG??

Date: Jan. 8th, 2018 05:40 am (UTC)
umadoshi: (facepalm - cat)
From: [personal profile] umadoshi
Wonder what the odds are he's all pleased about being so ~subtle~ about it, too.

Date: Jan. 8th, 2018 07:02 am (UTC)
wendelah1: (for the sake of argument)
From: [personal profile] wendelah1
It must have worked for him, at least once. So he's the rat running down the same maze looking for the cheese that must be there--it has to be there--because it was there before. Intermittent rewards are extremely effective at shaping behavior.

Date: Jan. 8th, 2018 07:02 am (UTC)
silverusagi: (Default)
From: [personal profile] silverusagi
Go with the snarkiest, then block him. :)
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