Something next to normal, that's the thing I'd like to try

Yeah, that's what I find with most female anti-heroes. While they may be important characters, they're very rarely central to the narrative. Even Adelle can really only provide meta-commentary because she's a supporting character, since we can still have our traditional heroine in Echo.

(Also, since you bring up BSG, I would totally count Bill Adama as an anti-hero in the same way, with Roslin in the Skyler White role, except I sincerely doubt the show wanted me to think he was a horrible person in the way that Walt or Don is, lol.)