Something next to normal, that's the thing I'd like to try

Sort of inherent in all fandoms, the way that it inevitably ends up being basically like high school? With the ~drama and the flouncing and the passive-aggressiveness. I find there's a lot of cliquishness, too - like, there are always the popular kids and the ones who are desperate to hang out with the popular kids and end up being kind of sycophantic? And there's the weirdo loners who are like, "Whatever, I don't even ~want to be cool," but secretly they DO and they're bitter that no one will include them.

Ummm... favorite crossover ship?