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next_to_normal) wrote2018-01-08 12:06 am
next_to_normal) wrote2018-01-08 12:06 am
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The latest dating WTF
Messaging a guy on Hinge:
Him: Are you seeking a partner? Something casual, physical intimacy, just friends, etc?
Me: I am looking for a relationship.
Him: I am into that. I just know physical intimacy is something I want while getting to know someone. As long as there is respect and informed consent throughout.
GUYS I KNOW I SHOULD JUST BLOCK HIM BUT I HAVE SO MANY SNARKY REPLIES. My current front runner is "Translation: You want a hook-up, I don't, but you're hoping if you're polite about it, I'll sleep with you anyway."
Why do dudes not realize that unless a girl explicitly only wants a hook-up, ASKING FOR SEX BEFORE YOU'VE MET IS A GIANT RED FLAG??
Him: Are you seeking a partner? Something casual, physical intimacy, just friends, etc?
Me: I am looking for a relationship.
Him: I am into that. I just know physical intimacy is something I want while getting to know someone. As long as there is respect and informed consent throughout.
GUYS I KNOW I SHOULD JUST BLOCK HIM BUT I HAVE SO MANY SNARKY REPLIES. My current front runner is "Translation: You want a hook-up, I don't, but you're hoping if you're polite about it, I'll sleep with you anyway."
Why do dudes not realize that unless a girl explicitly only wants a hook-up, ASKING FOR SEX BEFORE YOU'VE MET IS A GIANT RED FLAG??
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