Something next to normal, that's the thing I'd like to try

Heh, I kind of surprised myself by not picking Buffy/Spike as most dysfunctional. Maybe because the show recognized it as dysfunctional? Whereas some of the other relationships are just as screwed up, but the show tried to make them seem totally normal? And having the characters in denial about how dysfunctional they are somehow makes them even more dysfunctional? lol